&em
← Back to Settings

Privacy & safety

Meeting someone through &Em

  • Meet in a public place, especially the first time.
  • Tell a friend or family member where you're going and who you're meeting.
  • Arrange your own transport, and hold off sharing your home address until you're comfortable.
  • Trust your instincts. Leave any situation that feels wrong.

Verification

Requesting to join, or hosting, an outing requires ID verification through Stripe Identity. It's a real check, but it's not a background check. Verification doesn't guarantee someone's conduct or intentions, so the tips above still matter even with a verified badge.

Reporting

You can report a person, outing, or message wherever you see it in the app. Look for the report link on a profile or outing page. Reports are reviewed by us, and the reported account is suspended immediately while we look into it.

Your data

What we collect, why, and who we share it with, and your rights over it.

Both documents are drafts, written to match how the app actually works today, and haven't had a solicitor's review yet.